Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a cure for it, everyone is different and it takes on many forms, you might miss your dog, your mum, Saturday Kitchen, or even just having a kettle…and when you really do feel homesick it can feel like you’ll never feel better. But relax.. you will, and here’s and few things that have helped me get through when I’ve really wanted a kettle (*cough* my mum)
Stay in touch
Whether its a Skype date with your dog, or a quick whats app msg try and talk to your friends at home as much as possible, at some point in our lives we have all felt homesick so it’s something we can all relate to. Even if you don’t have Internet for a while remember that there’s people missing you just as much as you miss that kettle!
Write a ranty letter
This one works for most periods of un happiness. Write a long ranty letter, or email. But the key here is don’t send it, save this jem in your drafts folder. Come back to it in an hour or a day and ull see how most of those scary emotions have faded. It feels so good to get all your emotions down on paper where you can see them; I have a draft folder full of them and can’t believe how ridiculous I sound.. Thank goodness I didn’t send any of them…
Pamper time
Come on boys it’s time for that manicure! But no really male or female theres always little things that cheer you up, maybe a long hot bath, painting your nails, or even just a bit of moisturising, cracking on a good song and having a pamper evening works wonders!
Indulge your inner Disney
Ok ok so not always Disney but how about a tv show, book or film you love, something heartwarming with a nice happy ending… Warm your cockles and drift off to sleep, bliss!
Remember where you are…
I’m a self confessed negative nancy and really struggle to see the positive sometimes, but think about it, this short period of your life is just part of a really bloomin’ long period, appreciate where you are, remember why you chose to do it, and if that doesn’t help, think of all those years you’ll be back in England moaning about the cold all over again
Hope you feel better soon….
Ciao for now, I’m off to heat my water in a saucepan on the hob 😉